Category: Archive

  • A Year Has Already Gone By Since Mom’s Death

    I am grateful that I had numerous opportunities to see my mom during the summer of 2015.  This picture was taken in July of 2015 just a few months before her death on October 30, 2015.  I had no idea that when I visited her again in September it would be the last time I would see her.

    In October of 2014 mom and I made a trip to Irondale, Alabama to visit the EWTN studios with a stop at Our Lady of the Angels Monastery in Hanceville, Alabama.  She handled the trip very well for being ninety years of age at the time.  We had beautiful weather and a memorable trip.

    Irene Dobelmann on Halloween
    Irene Dobelmann on Halloween

    One of the staff members at the nursing home took this picture of mom just days before her death.  I remember being concerned when I received the picture as I noticed the continued swelling and redness in her ankle.  The antibiotics did not win the battle against the infection and mom died on October 30.  Her funeral took place on November 2, 2015–All Souls Day.

    I generally made five to six trips each year back to Missouri since moving to Wyoming in 2009.  Some years there were even more.  Since leaving the funeral on November 2, 2015 and returning to Wyoming I have only been back to Missouri once to attend a wedding and preside over a graveside service.  I do not miss doing the nearly 900 mile trip on a regular basis.  I have seen the state of Nebraska along Interstate 80 frequently enough to hold me over for this lifetime.  However, I am thankful I made regular visits back to see mom during all those years.  I cherish those memories.

    Life is ever changing.  God’s love is constant.  Embrace that love and generously share it with others.

  • Saying Farewell Brings Many Emotions

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    Priests, deacons, and lay faithful gathered from across the diocese to celebrate the Eucharist one last time with Archbishop-elect Etienne.  It was a beautiful and emotional celebration.  Our prayers and best wishes travel with him to Anchorage, Alaska.

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  • Looking Back Over The Last Seven Years With Joy

    As our diocese prepares to say farewell to our bishop, I have been spending some time looking back over these last seven years.  There have been many great memories created during these years.  One of the most meaningful aspects of my position has been to share in numerous liturgical celebrations with Bishop Etienne presiding.  Many of these celebrations have taken place at the Cathedral of St. Mary in Cheyenne, but there have been other occasions all across the diocese.

    The picture above was special for a couple of reasons.  It was a beautiful day in Powell, Wyoming where St. Barbara’s Parish was celebrating its 100th anniversary.   I had gone to Northwest College in Powell back in 1979 and attended Mass at St. Barbara’s Parish while there.  Coming back to celebrate 100 years of faith in 2010 was a wonderful treat.  Being the deacon to assist the bishop was icing on the cake.

    I pulled out a few other photos from 2010 to the present.  Celebrating the Sacred Triduum each year at the Cathedral has been beautiful.  My thanks to Matt Potter for being present at these celebrations through the years to capture some of these moments.

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    The annual September Institute included Cardinal O’Brien in 2015.  

    The formal farewell for our bishop will be at a celebration of the Eucharist on Friday (tomorrow) October 28, 2016 at 6:00 P.M. at the Cathedral of St. Mary in Cheyenne.  A reception will follow Mass in Hartmann Hall and all are invited.  I want to encourage everyone in the Cheyenne area (and beyond) to come to this celebration as we wish Archbishop-elect Etienne well in Anchorage, Alaska.

  • Discernment of God’s Will–Courage To Follow It

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    Do you ever struggle with discerning God’s will in your life?  When you reach a fork in the river of life and you are forced to make a decision, do you simply flip a coin and go with that game of chance?  How frequently do you pray that God will equip you well for the plan He has in mind?  Are you wandering through life with no real conviction?

    As I grow older I sometimes wonder how many times I have missed God’s guidance in my life.  Did I not catch the signs?  Did I see the signs and ignore them?  Did I see the signs and simply choose to go the other direction?  How has my life and ministry been enhanced when I saw the sign, followed it, and asked God’s blessing upon it during the whole time?  What a difference it makes when we walk humbly with our God!

    We are preparing for a major transition in our office as the bishop will be leaving to become the Archbishop of Anchorage on November 9.  How will this impact the flow of things in our office?  How long will we be under the guidance of an administrator before getting a new bishop appointed?  Who will the administrator be?  Who will the new bishop be?  What changes will take place when the new bishop arrives?

    Change always brings a little bit of uneasiness and discomfort.  However, we continue to walk in faith through all the ups and downs of life.  God has a plan and I simply want to fulfill my role in that plan as best as I am able.  I want to be faithful to God’s call in my life.  It isn’t always easy, but I know that I can trust in God’s providential care.Let us join together in prayer today.  Let us pray that we each can correctly discern God’s will in our lives.  Let us pray that we will then have the courage to allow God to equip us for the journey.  Let us pray that at the end of our pilgrimage on this earth we will hear those beautiful words, “Well done my good and faithful servant.  Enter into the joy of your master.”

  • “Therefore, Do Not Continue In Ignorance…”

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    The orderliness of creation is truly magnificent.  My wife sent the above photo to me from St. Charles, Missouri of this morning’s sunrise.  The Missouri River flows serenely in the foreground.  I reminded her that it was not yet 6:30 A.M. Mountain Time so it was still dark in Wyoming.  She simply said, “I know, but you are usually always up by now.”  I had to wait nearly an hour but I returned the favor by sending her a picture of the sunrise in Cheyenne, Wyoming.

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    The beauty of God’s handiwork is phenomenal.  The cycle of life with each passing day is well-ordered and is indeed “good”.  The natural law provides a keen insight into the creative energy of God.  When man attempts to disorder what God has created in perfect order we see the chaos present in modern society.  

    I encourage you to read the story of creation in the book of Genesis (first book of the Bible).  Read chapter one in its entirety with special attention given to verses 27 and 28.  Then turn to St. Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians and read chapter five in its entirety with special attention given to verses 31, 32, and 33 in connection with what you read in Genesis.

    Chapter five in St. Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians emphasizes the need for us to “live as children of light.”  In verse 17 he says, “Therefore, do not continue in ignorance…”  We each have a responsibility to know what the Church teaches and then do our best to model our behavior based upon these teachings. The teachings of the Church are not created in a vacuum.  They come to us from the Sacred Scriptures and the magisterial teaching authority of the Church. They are provided for our sanctification.  

    We have one mission in life–to be holy and blameless in the Lord’s sight.
    (See Ephesians chapter 1 verse 4)

    “What good is it to gain the whole world and lose your own soul?”
    (See Mark 8:36.)
    (See Matthew 16:26)
    (See Luke 9:25)

    God blesses us with each new day as an opportunity to grow in holiness.  We are called to be saints.  Let us honor that calling by being faithful to Christ in all that we think, say, and do.

  • Come Away And Rest A While

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    The autumn season has been very nice in southeastern Wyoming.  I am grateful that we did not move from summer directly into winter as we have some years in the past.  Traveling across the state in dry and warm conditions reduces my stress.  I know the snow will fly soon enough, but for now I will enjoy each mild day with a calm heart.

    My schedule has been full over the last four weeks and time off has been limited.  I don’t seem to do very well at taking a day off during the week when I work all weekend, but there are times when my body lets me know that I need to “come away and rest a while.”  I am getting better at heeding those signs and I try to at least shorten some of the work days.

    The difficulty for me is the sense of urgency that I feel in regard to proclaiming the Good news of the Kingdom.  As I watch our society drift further and further away from God it seems to me that time is of the essence. Do we really believe that hell exists?  Do we believe that people go there if they reject the love of Christ?  If so, what are we doing to help lost souls? Can we afford to approach this crisis in faith casually?

    I would encourage each of you to read slowly the Nicene Creed or the Apostles’ Creed.  Prayerfully meditate on the truths contained in either one of these creeds.  How are these words impacting the way you live?  Is the love of God BURNING within you?  Do you truly THIRST for God?

    My dear people of faith, there is no time to be lukewarm.  (Read Revelation chapter 3 verses 15 and 16.  That is the last book of the Bible.)  Our world needs faithful witnesses.  Study your faith.  Pray.  Ask for a renewed outpouring of the Holy Spirit in your life.  Fulfill God’s plan for your life with zeal and fervor.  Be a saint!

  • “Ignorance of Scripture Is Ignorance of Christ”

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    It is a cool and damp day in Cheyenne as the month of September draws to a close.  The season of autumn can be felt today.  While I enjoy the changing of the seasons I am not thrilled with the approach of winter.  Shortened daylight, gusting winds, heavy snowfalls, and frigid temperatures are not that appealing to me.  I will enjoy the beauty of fall for as long as possible.

    The Church celebrates the Memorial of St. Jerome today.  He was a Priest and Doctor of the Church.  St. Jerome is the patron saint of Scripture scholars.  His famous line still resonates with us today, “Ignorance of Scripture is ignorance of Christ.”  Hopefully, that line will propel us into a more diligent study of the Sacred Scriptures.

    Is reading, studying, and praying with the Sacred Scriptures part of your daily routine?  If so, how can you enhance this time with the Lord?  If not, how can you incorporate this into your daily regimen of activities?  Allow God’s Word to penetrate deeply into your mind and heart so that you may faithfully sing His praises! 

  • Governor’s Symposium on Suicide Prevention

    On Tuesday afternoon I had the privilege of attending the Governor’s Symposium on Suicide Prevention.  The Honorable Matthew H. Mead. Governor of Wyoming, welcomed all of us for this very important discussion. The rate of suicide in Wyoming is high, and the cross-section of people gathered in Casper, Wyoming  for this symposium showed a desire to do something about those disconcerting rates.

    The statistical data is alarming, but we were reminded that this is about much more than statistics.  This is about people.  Our State Auditor, Cynthia Cloud, shared her powerful testimony as to how her family had been impacted just six months ago when her own son committed suicide at the age of seventeen. This put a face to all of the numbers.

    Carolyn M. Pepper, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology at the University of Wyoming, gave an evidence-based presentation that was well-prepared and well-delivered regarding suicide in the Mountain Division of the United States.  One area that spoke directly to me was the matter of religiosity.  She said that religiosity can be a significant factor in reducing suicides. Unfortunately, religiosity in Wyoming is relatively low.  This was a reminder to me that faith in Christ can literally be a matter of life and death–both now and the hereafter.

    One session focused solely on our military veterans.  We have many military veterans living in Wyoming and the rate of suicide among that particular group is staggering.  I am grateful for all of the people that strive to reach out to our military veterans in a variety of ways.  In particular, I want to thank the chaplains who are faithful in their continued outreach to bring the love of God to those who are hurting.

    After the symposium concluded I headed directly to a 40 Days for Life kick-off rally also being held in Casper, Wyoming.  We held a Life Chain which extended from Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church all the way to the local Planned Parenthood facility about 2,000 feet away.  It was impressive to see pro-life people lining the entire street for that distance.  We continue to show that life is precious from conception through natural death.

    After the Life Chain we enjoyed dinner and then I had the privilege of being the keynote speaker for the evening.  I am extremely grateful when I get to address groups who are filled with faith in the risen Christ.  Although I was tired at the end of the evening, and still had a three hour drive to return home, it was a day filled with many blessings.  I arrived home just before midnight–exhausted and exhilarated at the same time.  God continues to move among His people.

    This Sunday is “Respect Life Sunday.”  I have the privilege of preaching the homily at four of the six Masses this weekend at the Cathedral of St. Mary in Cheyenne. 

    Saturday, October 1,
    5:15 P.M.

    Sunday, October 2,
    7:30 A.M.
    10:30 A.M.
    12:00 Noon

    Please plan to participate in LifeChain this Sunday at 2:00 P.M.  In Cheyenne we will be at Dell Range and Powderhouse giving witness to the sacred value and dignity of each human life from 2:00 to 3:00 P.M.  Wherever you live, please get involved.  You can see all of the 1,600 locations across the United States at www.lifechain.net

  • The Gift of Life–Let Us Show Proper Respect

    My dad’s birthday over the weekend made me stop and pause for a moment to reflect upon his life.  He had always said that he wanted to live to be a hundred.  He died more than twenty-two years ago so he did not make to that magical number of 100.  He would be 99 now if he were still here.

    Birthdays are opportunities for each of us to reflect on the graces and blessings we have received from Almighty God.  Although life can be difficult at times, if we look for the hand of God in the midst of the sufferings we can see grace at work.  I will readily admit that there have been times when I have been in the midst of the struggle and it was quite difficult to see past the darkness of the affliction.  Thankfully, God has been patient with me in my slowness to understand and appreciate His grace.

    I will be focusing on the gift of life in a couple of unique ways tomorrow.  I will be attending the Governor’s Symposium on Suicide Prevention in the afternoon and then I will be speaking at a 40 Days for Life kick-off rally in the evening.  It is an honor to be included in both of these events being held in Casper, Wyoming.

    The afternoon session will provide an opportunity to learn about initiatives to improve outcomes and close gaps in health care.  This will obviously include behavioral health.  A session will be devoted to the high risk of suicide among our veterans.  Another session will look at the ramifications of losing a child to suicide.  The event will close with a panel discussion about ways in which we can increase awareness and provide educational opportunities for suicide prevention.

    A closing thought on the topic of suicide–
    If you, or someone you know, is contemplating suicide please seek help. There is no need to walk the journey alone.  If you have family support let them know you are struggling.  Contact your pastor, counselor, or medical doctor.  Let someone know you are hurting before it is too late.

    In the evening I will speak to the people preparing to begin the 40 Days for Life campaign on Wednesday.  I intend to give a brief rundown of how we arrived at this point in time in regard to life issues–in particular abortion. Here are some of the highlights.  (If you are in Casper don’t look.)

    In 1968 Pope Paul VI promulgated the Encyclical Letter Humanae Vitae.  This document clearly described the slippery slope we would be on if we accepted the contraceptive culture. The publication was ignored by many and ridiculed by even more. Unfortunately, many of those ridiculing the document were prominent theologians and clerics.  They convinced a multitude of people to reject the teaching laid out in the encyclical.  We are now reaping the consequences of that dissent in a monumental way.

    In 1972 the United States Bishops set aside the month of October as “Respect Life Month.”  The first Sunday of October was set aside as “Respect Life Sunday.”  It was as if they could read the writing on the wall.  In January of 1973 we had the Unites States Supreme Court decision Roe versus Wade which gave us abortion on demand.  The follow-up court case of Doe versus Bolton made abortion legal through all nine months of pregnancy.

    In 1987 Life Chain began in Yuba City, California.  There were about 2,000 participants in that first life chain.  In 2015 Life Chain took place in over 1,600 cities in the United States.  I hope you will participate this Sunday in your local community.  Go to www.lifechain.net to find a location near you.

    In 1995 Saint Pope John Paul II issued The Gospel of Life.  He could obviously see the necessity of proclaiming the sanctity and dignity of each human life from conception through natural death.  As our society continues down a path that celebrates abortion, physician-assisted suicide, and euthanasia we need his message of hope even more today.  There are examples in the state of Oregon now of where people have been refused by their insurance company to pay for treatments.  However, the insurance will pay for physician-assisted suicide.  There is something really wrong with that picture.

    On September 29, 2000–just a couple of days before Respect Life Sunday–the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) approved the use of the RU-486 abortion pill in the United States of America.  The trajectory of our nation continued toward being a culture of death with this disastrous decision.

    Finally, in 2007, we saw the first 40 Days for Life campaign.  According to their website the 40 Days for Life statistics are as follows:

    636 cities
    36 nations
    4,168 campaigns
    700,000 volunteers
    11,796 lives have been saved
    133 abortion workers have quit their jobs
    75 abortion centers have closed

    These statistics demonstrate that being a prayerful witness to the sanctity of life is bearing fruit.

    I simply close with these thoughts.  If you have been impacted by abortion in one way or another, please know that there is help and healing available.  I know some individuals struggle for years following an abortion.  God’s grace can bring healing and hope.  Call your local church or crisis pregnancy center for guidance and help if you don’t know where to turn.  

    Our culture needs a lot of healing.  Each of us can play a part in building a culture of life.  How will you get involved?

  • The 2016 September Institute Is In The Books

    It is good to connect with priests, deacons, and lay leaders from all across the diocese at the annual September Institute.  I was especially grateful this year that I did not have to plan, organize, and facilitate this year’s gathering.  It was the first time in five years that I could just attend without being responsible for all of the details 

    I drove to Laramie this morning and left the house quite early because I was unable to sleep.  Fog was thick in the Cheyenne area and I thought the extra drive time would allow for a slower speed in the unfavorable conditions. Thankfully, the fog lifted about fifteen miles outside of Cheyenne and clear conditions were present for the rest of the trip.  I arrived early enough to take a walk around the University of Wyoming campus before breakfast.Enjoy the pictures of my stroll around campus.​

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