Author: Vernon Dobelmann

  • Be Like A Postage Stamp

    Be Like A Postage Stamp

    “Be like a postage stamp–stick to one thing until you get there.”

                                                                                                            ~Josh Billings

    Years ago I enjoyed getting mail.  A trip to the mailbox, especially around the holidays, was always a time of anticipation and expectation.  Even when e-mail arrived on the scene I was excited to hear my computer say, “You’ve got mail.”  Believe me, those days are long gone.  Looking at the “in-box” each morning now can be a source of anxiety rather than a source of expectation.

    The art of letter writing seems to be fading away and that is too bad.  I have been profoundly touched by letters I have received through the years.  I have also tried to bring that same kind of joy to others by letters I have written.  In all honesty, I will admit that I do it too infrequently these days.  

    I remember a few years ago I attended the 25th wedding anniversary of a couple I had come to know through a cancer support group.  At one point during the chemotherapy treatments (many years prior to this gathering) the individual was really going through a rough patch.  I sent a note in the mail with a few words of encouragement.  In my mind the letter contained nothing significantly profound, but 15 or more years later I was shown that letter at the anniversary party.  It was profoundly meaningful to the person that received the letter during a very difficult time of life.  We shared the memories of suffering, surviving, and ultimately, thriving.  I read the letter I had written all those years ago; it still didn’t seem that magnificent to me.  However, the person that received it read it from a completely different context.  

    I was reminded of all of this today when I saw a couple of interesting tidbits of historical information that occurred on December 11.  In 1975 a first class postage stamp in the United States went from costing 10 cents to 13 cents.  Ah!  Wouldn’t we enjoy seeing those prices now?  On December 11, 1961 the Marvelettes released the song, “Please Mr. Postman.”  I am showing my age, but yes, I enjoyed hearing that song on the radio.  Finally, I came across the quote from Josh Billings which I placed under the picture at the top of this article.  That really made me think about my Advent journey.

    As we prepare for Gaudete Sunday, are we seeking God with our whole heart, mind, soul, and strength?  Are we pursuing sanctity with the kind of dedication Josh Billings is mentioning?  “Be like a postage stamp–stick to one thing until you get there.”  Are we pursuing sanctity with that kind of single-minded dedication?  I hope so.  Listen closely to this weekend’s second reading from Thessalonians and follow the simple guidance provided.
    1. Rejoice always.
    2. Pray without ceasing.
    3. Give thanks.
    4. Do not quench the Spirit.
    5. Test everything.
    6. Retain what is good.
    7. Refrain from every kind of evil.

    Be like a postage stamp and stick to one thing until you get there.  My recommendation is to stick with God.

    “May the God of peace make you perfectly holy and may you entirely, spirit, soul, and body, be preserved blameless for the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.”                        (1 Thessalonians 5:23)

  • Bishop Paul Etienne–Happy Anniversary!

    The day began early this morning, but it was well worth it.  Bishop Paul Etienne was the celebrant at the 6:45 A.M. Eucharistic Liturgy at the Cathedral of St. Mary in Cheyenne.  Today marks the fifth anniversary of Bishop Etienne’s ordination and installation as Bishop of the Diocese of Cheyenne.  The weather was much more cooperative this year than it was five years ago, and the peace and serenity in the cathedral this morning was a very different environment as compared to the huge event at the Civic Center in 2009.

    There was something profound about this morning’s celebration.  The bishop’s homily was extremely personal and heartfelt.  His words provided all of us with the opportunity to reflect upon our own relationship with the Good Shepherd.  The grace of God was almost palpable in our midst, and it was a privilege to be present for this simple, but stirring, anniversary celebration.

    I was hired as the Director of Pastoral Ministries for the Diocese of Cheyenne prior to Bishop Etienne being named the new bishop.  I was hired by the Diocesan Administrator (in the absence of a bishop), and I arrived in Cheyenne about six weeks before Bishop Etienne.  Accepting this position prior to a bishop being appointed created a little anxiety in my life.  Who would the new bishop be?  What would he be like?  What would happen if he wanted to revamp everything—out with old and in with the new?  (Even though I had just arrived I could be viewed as the “old.”)

    As time passed and events unfolded I was grateful that the Holy Spirit had brought me to this place at this particular time.  Working with Bishop Etienne during these five years has been a true blessing indeed.  As I get a close-up view of the burden of responsibility that a bishop carries, I am more diligent in keeping all of the bishops in my prayers.  I realize that criticisms are easy to thrust toward Church leadership, and some of that criticism has been rightly earned over the years.  However, I also know that there are a lot of dedicated individuals doing their best to serve God and the church with great faithfulness and fidelity.  Bishop Paul Etienne is one of those individuals.

    Congratulations Bishop Etienne on your five year anniversary as the Bishop of the Diocese of Cheyenne.  Your ministry in the diocese is truly appreciated.  This day I offer prayers of gratitude and supplication for you, your family, and all of the people under your care.  May the grace of our Lord, Jesus Christ, the love of God the Father, and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you!

                             See Bishop Etienne’s own reflection for today at his blog:

    http://bishopsblog.dioceseofcheyenne.org/

  • Running At Full Throttle

    Advent is into the second week.  How are you doing?

    My calendar has been full lately.  (Thus, the infrequency of blog postings.)  I have been making a conscious effort to stay focused on the season in the midst of the hectic pace. However, determining whether or not I have been successful is a subjective evaluation. Some days would probably score better than some other days.

    On Friday I led a simple gathering of a dozen folks in an hour of reflection.  It was an amazing experience.  I had contacted everyone in the group a few days prior to the gathering and asked each person to think of a “WOW” moment in their lives.  We used those examples to move into a deeper look at how God works in our lives on a continual basis.  There was no doubt that the power of the Holy Spirit was moving in our midst as we shared our thoughts, struggles, hurts, and joys.  These intimate gatherings allow for a profound experience of the presence of God, and I am grateful for having been a part of this particular gathering.

    On Friday evening I traveled to Casper, Wyoming to present a day-long retreat on Saturday and preach at all of the weekend Masses at St. Anthony’s Parish.  These opportunities to visit a parish community are always exciting.  I enjoy meeting the people and appreciate the privilege of sharing the journey of faith with them.  Although I am the one doing the presenting, I always walk away enriched in the process.  It is a fantastic experience to learn of the many ways people have been touched by the love of God.

    I was reminded by the beginning of Mark’s Gospel this weekend to look at my faith journey with a sense of urgency.  God is calling me to holiness today–not tomorrow, not next week, not next month–TODAY!  Mark chose to start his Gospel with Jesus being in adulthood.  He wasted no time with the infancy narrative or the early years. The difference in his approach as compared to the other Gospel writers really struck me this year.  I don’t know if that is the message he was intending to communicate by starting his Gospel in that manner, but it is the message I took home with me this weekend.  It was something I need to ponder.

    John the Baptist struck me in a somewhat different manner this time too.  As I proclaimed the Gospel at mass I was overwhelmed at the humility of John.  People were coming to him from all over the Judean countryside as well as Jerusalem to be baptized.  He was popular.  Some thought he was the messiah.  He did not bask in this attention; he simply pointed people toward Christ and the coming of the Kingdom.

         Are we pointing people to Christ in the way we speak and the way we act?

  • Advent–A Time For Serious Reflection

    The waters of baptism have brought each one of us new life.  The Sacred Chrism has sealed us with the gifts of the Holy Spirit.  How have we been changed through these experiences?  Are we truly preparing the way of the Lord?

    This Sunday (the 2nd Sunday of Advent) we hear the beginning of Mark’s Gospel.  The first line of the Gospel isn’t even a sentence; it does not contain a verb.  The line stands more as a title than anything else: “The beginning of the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God.”  There is no infancy narrative in Mark’s Gospel.  He simply jumps into the story at the time of John the Baptist.  This directness cuts to the chase and reminds us of the necessity of repentance.

    John the Baptist is an excellent example for Christians.  He was fueled with a burning passion to point others to Christ.  He admits that he is not even worthy to stoop and loosen the thongs of his sandals.  The humility expressed by John the Baptist is refreshing, and he certainly challenges me to look at my own life.  Am I pointing others toward Christ with that same kind of humility?

               How will you prepare the way of the Lord during this Advent season?

  • Happy Thanksgiving!

          “Give thanks to the Lord for He is good.  His mercy endures forever.”  


    HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

  • Ferguson, Missouri

    What the heck is happening to our country?  That is the toned-down version of a question I heard this morning.  Events in Ferguson, Missouri have put a spotlight on the social problems that continue to exist in our communities.  Unfortunately, the answers to these problems will not likely be forthcoming.  Symptoms may be addressed in a few areas but the root causes will probably remain firmly entrenched.  Continued moral decline is what is happening to our country.

    The vandalism, looting, and burning of property that took place last night was simply a crime of opportunity.  A “mob mentality” is easily created in this type of environment and the results are quite predictable.  The destruction of businesses in a community that is already struggling will only exacerbate the existing challenges of poverty, unemployment, and criminal activity.  A thinking person realizes that these actions don’t accomplish anything in regard to promoting justice or honoring the memory of the deceased.  However, thinking seems to be a commodity in short supply in a scenario such as this.

    Rush Limbaugh mentioned in his opening monologue today that thinking has been replaced with feelings.  He cited sports examples in which interviewers asked athletes, “How do you feel?”  As I watched interviews last night with numerous people in the Ferguson area this sentiment was played out over and over.  “I feel” was the predominant theme.  This makes it difficult, if not impossible, to reason with people regarding the facts.  After all, some people don’t want the facts messing up the narrative they have playing in their mind.

    In fair disclosure, I want to mention a couple of things.  Thirty years ago I was a police officer with the St. Louis County Police Department serving in the North County precinct not far from Ferguson.  Secondly,  I am an ISTJ on the Myers-Briggs personality type assessment.  (For those of you unfamiliar with this tool, the “T” stands for “thinking” as opposed to an “F” which stands for “Feeling.”)  My personality type is to evaluate and analyze information based upon the facts and circumstances as they are presented.  Although I tend to trust my gut instinct in certain circumstances, my preferred mode of operation is to think through a situation and arrive at the best decision based upon the available data. 

    In the rule of law, I hope we will always utilize facts as the basis of decisions rather than feelings.  Even if a personality type is an “F” rather than a “T” it would still seem logical (in my “T” world) to utilize evidence as the basis of the Grand Jury decision rather than feelings.  If feelings are going to dominate the criminal justice system rather than a process of judicial review, we have simply moved into a state of anarchy and we can all kiss our sense of security of good-bye.  Ferguson gave us a glimpse into that style of living last night.

    This side-trip leads me back to the “root” causes of the social problems in communities like Ferguson.  The current symptom appears to be racial tensions between white cops and black citizens.  (A poll today showed that 98% of blacks think the decision by the Grand Jury was wrong and 96% of whites think it was right.)  The historical context of slavery and oppression play into these perceptions, but what are the modern day factors contributing to the upheaval and chaos being experienced today?  Delving into the sociological and psychological research would require an exhaustive amount of time—far beyond the scope of this article.  Thus, I will lay out my opinions without the sources of research to back up what I consider some of the root causes.

    I think (and feel) that the breakdown of the family unit is a huge contributing factor to the undermining of positive values being handed down from one generation to the next—especially in minority neighborhoods.  Virtuous male role models are absent in the lives of many young black men growing up.  How will they effectively learn right from wrong?  What are their attitudes toward authority figures and how did they develop them?  Who models appropriate behavior for them?  Looking at these types of factors will get us closer to the root causes of the behaviors we witnessed last night.

    Secondly, I think (and feel) that the failed educational system is not providing the tools to “think” effectively and logically.  How can wise choices be made if one lacks the basic understanding of assessing and processing information?  Has the current educational system simply indoctrinated young minds in minority neighborhoods to see themselves as victims and entitled to certain things?  If our schools are telling students what to “feel” rather than teaching them how to “think,” we are justly reaping the chaos that has been sown.

    Finally, the Church no longer serves as a dominant influence in the moral training of our young people.  If good and upright values are not received from the family or from the Church, from whence shall they come?  The disturbing images on TV last night were made more horrendous when folks like Rev. Al Sharpton use the Church to incite more violence rather than to promote calm and common sense.

    Families are falling apart.  Educational systems are sometimes producing an inferior product.  Church attendance is in steep decline.  These foundations of society are crumbling and we are beginning to experience the repercussions.  Prominent institutions which once served as agents of solidarity and cohesiveness have disintegrated before our eyes.  Technological connections have replaced family.  Indoctrination and politics have replaced education.  Media and entertainment have replaced spiritual and religious practice.   

    What the heck has happened to our country?  The answer is plain and simple.  We have turned away from God.  Even though we are preparing to enter the Advent season, it may be a good time to be reminded of what we hear at the beginning of Lent.  
    “Turn away from sin and be faithful to the Gospel.”    

  • Servant Leadership

    Although the ideas of servant leadership are ancient, Robert K. Greenleaf did a fantastic job of articulating these concepts for our time.  I, for one, have benefitted from his writings.  Mr. Greenleaf died in 1990 but his work continues to impact our world.  It is my hope that more individuals and organizations will truly heed the call of servant leadership because it could monumentally transform our world.

    The Sacred Scriptures highlight the lifestyle of a servant leader.  Those who attend church on a weekly basis are reminded frequently of what it means to be a follower of that tradition.  Jesus Christ was the ultimate servant-leader, and He invites us to take up our cross daily and follow Him.  What hinders our response to that invitation?

    Can you imagine a world in which we all were striving to live as servant-leaders?  Start in the home.  What would we experience in our families if each individual did his or her best to exhibit love by serving the others in the household?  I am not simply talking about a delineation of household chores.  I am referring to a genuine and heartfelt, caring environment in which each member of the home truly wanted the best for the other members—and helped them achieve it.  Do we bring out the best in one another?  The home is the foundation from which these principles will emanate.  We need to get it right in the home to enhance our effectiveness in the community.

     Bullying has been a problem in our schools of epidemic proportion.  If children learned servant-leadership in the home on a wide-spread scale the school culture would change dramatically.  Unfortunately, many families are not guided by Christian principles in our day.  Furthermore, the schools have also removed God.  School administrators have become paralyzed with fear in regard to keeping religion out of the school.  They don’t want to be sued for violating the separation of church and state.  Thus, the greatest piece of literature—the Bible—is not studied due to this fear.  Subsequently, the premier tool to teach servant-leadership is not utilized and society pays the price.  Young people who do not learn the basic principles of servant-leadership during their formative years will enter adulthood with other values guiding their way.  What will those guiding factors be? 

     We typically spend a lot of hours at work as adults.  Even if you aren’t the boss, you can still be a servant-leader.  Leadership is influence, not simply a position or a title.  If surveys regarding “employee satisfaction” are accurate, we could certainly use more servant-leaders in the workplace.  Dysfunction in the workplace due to poor leadership is rampant.  What would happen if each us truly “bloomed where we were planted?”  I may not be able to change the world, but I can change myself.  What impact would that have on the people around me?

    The lust for power, fame, and fortune is evident in our world today.  Among our “public servants” we see endeavors which highlight a path to “doing well” for the individual as opposed to “doing good” for those they have been called to serve.  This is a symptom of a much deeper problem permeating modern society.  Looking out for number one seems to frequently supersede the aspect of being a servant-leader.  The sin of pride hinders our ability to recognize Jesus Christ in our neighbor.

     As we inch closer to Thanksgiving Day, I am grateful for all of the people who have touched my life in a positive way throughout the years.  I still have a lot to learn, and a lot to put into practice more fully, but I have truly been blessed with many good and wonderful examples in my life.   I do not want to take those blessings for granted.

    I will close this entry with a glimpse of the humility of Robert Greenleaf.  He is buried in Terre Haute, Indiana, with an epitaph on his tombstone that shows a bit of his personality: “Potentially a good plumber; ruined by a sophisticated education.”  http://www.greenleaf.org/

  • Failed Leadership Hurts People

    John Maxwell frequently states that everything rises and falls based upon leadership.  An institution will flourish under good leadership and it will struggle under poor leadership.  We see this lived out on a regular basis in business settings, non-profits, churches, and in all levels of government bureaucracy.  Effective leaders ensure that individuals and organizations thrive.  Incompetent leaders reap chaos, discontent, and suffering.

    Effective leadership is anticipatory rather than reactive.  Great leaders have the ability to observe and assess situations and plan accordingly.  They have proficient skills at training and mentoring others in the organization to also be proactive leaders.  Finally, effective leaders encourage healthy conflict among team members to ensure that ideas and issues are discussed thoroughly and honestly.  This typically leads to good decision making.

    Reactionary leadership in Ferguson, Missouri by local, state, and federal officials—all the way up to the U.S. Attorney General and the U.S President—has primed the pump for a worst case scenario to take place.  The racial tensions in the St. Louis area have always been quite high, and this latest conflict between Ferguson police and the black community simply exposes the fragile nature of race relations.  Unfortunately, government leaders have frequently been viewed as part of the problem rather than part of the solution through this prolonged episode of real-life drama.  The question that sticks in my mind is a simple one.  How will things change in the future?  Once the verdict is announced from the Grand Jury and the dust settles, what will ultimately change? How will leadership at the local level, as well as state and federal agencies, move forward following these months of tension and violence?  What will have been learned?

    As I attempt to put the chaos of Ferguson, Missouri into context, I can’t help but think of the chaos on a wider scale created by failed leadership in regard to the immigration issue.  The political aspect of the immigration issue is huge, and one’s political leanings will greatly impact what a person thinks about the president’s speech on Thursday, November 20, 2014.  I don’t want to dwell on the pros and cons of immigration.  That is a debate for another time.  However, I want to look at the processes and methodologies being utilized by the president.  Is it good leadership to unilaterally make this move?

    Our Founding Fathers were quite wise in developing a system which had such a distinct separation of powers.  They understood the potential for a misuse of power.  Even if the actions to be taken by the president in regard to immigration are within constitutional standards, does anyone view this as good leadership?  Who is responsible for gridlock?  What is the role of a leader in government?  The inability to work with people who have opposing views is detrimental to the well-being of any organization, business, or country.  Republicans can blame Democrats; Democrats can blame Republicans.  In the end, if John Maxwell is accurate in regard to everything rising and falling in regard to leadership, the leader of the country may need to look in the mirror for clarity about the failed attempts to get things done.

    It is no doubt that the issues are complex.  In no way am I minimizing the difficult task of a leader, especially the leader of a country such as the U.S.A.  However, the glaring inconsistencies of this administration between the words spoken and the actions taken are alarming under any circumstances.  I will be honest.  I cringed numerous times during the brief speech of the president. Commentators affirmed many of my ill feelings after the speech was over.  In particular, it was interesting to see what the president said a few years ago on numerous occasions about not having the constitutional authority to act on his own, and now he was doing just that.  It’s amazing what a difference a few years can make.

    As he referred to “ripping” families apart by deportation, the image of an unborn baby being “ripped” from the womb immediately entered my mind.  In his mind that kind of ripping is apparently okay.  Remember his words, “God bless Planned Parenthood.”  Although the president quoted Scripture during his speech to win me over, I was not impressed.  Anyone can quote Scripture.  Living by the principles contained therein is another matter indeed.

    Speculation about the long-term consequences of the president’s actions is in full swing.

    Is it constitutional?

    Will it encourage more illegals to enter the country?

    Does it create easier opportunities for terrorists to enter our country?

    What does it mean for individuals and families trying to enter the country legally?

    What will this do to our job market?

    What impact will it have on our over-all economy?

    According to the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops website, “Bishop Eusebio Elizondo, M.Sp.S., auxiliary bishop of Seattle and chairman of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) Committee on Migration, welcomed the news today that the Obama administration will defer deportations for many undocumented immigrants and their families.”  I understand the desire to be compassionate, and I realize that failed leadership for years has in many ways created the chaos we currently have in place.  However, I would encourage serious reflection before celebrating too boisterously.  What are the long-term ramifications of unilateral action by a president?

    Why do I raise this question?  Look at the HHS Mandate of the Affordable Care Act.  Many dioceses and Catholic organizations have filed lawsuits against the government.  The president has repeatedly, on his own, changed rules without congressional approval.  How has that worked out for religious freedom?  Do we want unilateral action by the president when it seems to fit in our personal agenda but resist it when it does not?  We can’t have it both ways.  

    Bishop Elizondo may welcome this current news about immigration, but I would urge a restrained exuberance.  The consequences of these actions go far beyond the issue of immigration.  It has the potential to obliterate the republic form of government that we have enjoyed for over 200 years.  Is that an exaggeration?  We shall see.  Failed leadership can result in some devastating consequences for the rest of us.

  • Adventure and Excitement (For Men)

    Is being a man of faith exciting?  Does being a man of God get your blood pumping like a Pony Express rider of old?  Apparently, a lot of men aren’t too excited about the religious practice component of life.  According to Luis Logo and The Pew Forum on Religious and Public Life about 11 million adult men in the U.S. were raised Catholic but left the faith.  A Gallup survey reveals that 48% of men agree that “Mass is boring.”  Gallup further reveals that only 33% of Catholic men pray on a daily basis.

    Those statistics are sobering to say the least.  The ripple effect is huge.  How does a husband and father lead his family into the ways of righteousness and holiness if he is not a man of prayer himself?  What is the foundation upon which a man builds his life if it is not built upon a relationship with God?  How do we reverse the current trend we are witnessing?

  • Empty Pews

    Empty Pews

    “When the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?”  (Luke 18:8)

    Is the Church irrelevant in today’s society?  This question surfaces in my mind more and more frequently as I watch church attendance continue to decline.  Looking at the consolidation and reorganization of parishes in New York announced by Cardinal Dolan  recently is a somber reminder of the difficult circumstances surrounding the life of believers.  Obviously, many factors contribute to parish closings and mergers, but the level of church attendance is one of those important factors.  I was stunned when I read an article which said weekly Mass attendance in New York is about 12% of Catholics.  Wow!

    There are many possible reasons (or excuses) for not attending church on a weekly basis.  A survey conducted in Australia listed 20 such options and asked people to choose three.  The question was posed to Catholic parents with children attending Catholic Schools who infrequently attend Mass or don’t even go at all.  I want to cover the top three responses given by these parents.

    Fifty-four percent (54%) said that they “No longer feel that being a committed Catholic requires going to Mass every week.”  Thirty-one percent (31%) said they don’t attend because of “Disagreement with the Church’s teaching on, or attitude toward, personal sexual issues.”  Twenty-three percent (23%) said “Weekends are the only time available for being with the family.”

    Attitudes have certainly changed in the last forty years.  When I was growing up “being with the family” on weekends meant going to church on Sunday morning.  The priority seems to have shifted immensely in this regard.  Now, many people choose to only go to church if no other demands on their time are pressing.  Extra-curricular school activities, sports outside of school, running errands, and doing all of the things not accomplished during the other six days of the week frequently take precedence over going to church.

    Since 31% disagree with Church teaching on sexual sins, it is obvious that in many ways we have lost the “culture war.”  The secular media has sold their message more effectively than the Church.  I use the word “sold” on purpose.  If you follow the money you can see why the message has been continuously hammered home.  Sex sells. Pornography sells.  Abortion sells.  Activities once viewed as deviant behavior are now accepted, and even celebrated.  Living a virtuous and monogamous lifestyle is viewed by many as old-fashioned and out-of-touch.

    Finally, 54% don’t see a need to go to Mass every week.  Instead of the word “Mass” I would insert the word “Eucharist.”  The word Eucharist means “to give thanks.”  If we approach the table of the Lord with sincere and grateful hearts it may have a greater impact in our lives.  Why would we miss the opportunity to be nurtured by the proclamation of God’s Sacred Word and to be nourished by the very Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of our Lord, Jesus Christ, in the Eucharist?  Why is Mass attendance viewed as an obligation rather than a privilege to encounter the living God?

    The leadership of the Church has to bear much of the responsibility for the decline in faith.  Surveys repeatedly show that many people view the homilies as boring or irrelevant.  That is a problem.  Referring back to the Australian study, one of the top reasons for not attending Mass was due to a “lack of intellectual stimulation.”  Clergy members entrusted with the privilege and responsibility of preaching need to be prepared spiritually and academically, and they need to enhance their presentation skills so they can deliver the message with zeal and energy.  Preaching God’s Word should not be boring.

    We each have a role to fulfill in building up the Kingdom of God.  My challenge to you today is to specifically pray for an increase of the theological virtues of faith, hope, and love.  Let God’s Holy Spirit move within you.

                                                      “Rise up in splendor, Jerusalem! 
                       Your light has come, the glory of the Lord shines upon you.”  
                                                                                           (Isaiah 60:1)